3 - he lacks self awareness, and has no idea what he wants, or how to be a decent person... He likes or loves u a lot, but is weak and selfish, so desices to cheat, because he is not sure if your the on for him and he wants to have fun..
lost in space.
Here's a fave Bear.....
Love rightys top.
"and felt guily, he told me at that time that I should never feel guilty about that, he stated hewasturned on by it.".
And don't worry about sounding mean, I like brutal honesty!.