Lemondrop: i think that's because there are a hole lot of new people here and most of the "old" users probably can't remember if they saw a certain pic here or somewhere else.
I know "of course" he regrets what he did/misses me after the fact, and it still remains that he DID sleep with someone else -- for reasons unknown. But his character/personality/past experiences with me suggest otherwise.. he is not the type of person to think something like this is OK. He is well aware of the fact that I believe this behavior to be 100% unacceptable, and he is extremely intimidated by me and my attitude toward others when I believe an injustice was served. Though I haven't spoken to him in weeks, he also hasn't spoken to me because of this intimidation and his huge fear of stepping on toes - hes very non confrontational, that bugs me sometimes but anyway...he's spoken to my friends, however, to get their opinions or to apologize to them for everything, etc. to kind of indirectly get to me..