I remember on my last drive home after meeting someone who was 1.5 hours away that this isn't worth it. It's just not worth the time and energy when I can meet someone closer. While 1.5 hours isn't considered a LDR, it kinda is. You cannot meet on a whim for snow cones..
Jealously is a natural emotion and, within reason, it's healthy and normal. I certainly don't want to have to endure a woman's ex's when I'm in a relationship, and I make it a point early on to figure out how a woman handles them. I believe in clean breaks, I don't maintain contact even though I have a few who would like to, expect the same consideration..
She asked me to marry her 2 months before I found all this out. I'm hurt and lost. She says that they don't talk at all, but why would the situation change suddenly? I don't even think her exes still know that she is in a relationship.. or ENGAGED..
Now that's what I'm talking about.
Ok. As mentioned in the title, I'm so confused. My rational side has pretty much ran away. Please bear with me, and thank you all very much in advance for any insights you may have..
You are a wonderful girl and need someone to be invested heart and soul in you..
I have to admit I freaked out that he may ignore me after having the sex so, to avoid being dumped (!) I texted him yesterday that I feel like it would be best to not meet again. Before that he wasn't overly enthusiastic in texting but wasn't ignoring me either. And it has only been 2 days since we had sex at the time I texted..
Holy ass! Wow.