You can TELL him whatever you want, BUT what you have SHOWN him up to this point is you don't mean the words you're telling him because you continue to allow him to abuse you even after you've TOLD him you're not down for it, and you're not putting up with it..
I would just keep the ring with you at all times. Then, when you feel this absolute special moment together, no matter where you are, then pull it out and go with whatever comes out of your mouth. She'll remember HOW she felt more than she'll remember what happened. What if she's in a bad mood that night? Cranky, sleepy, etc.. That's why I'd wait for a special moment you two are sharing. It could be at a fancy resturant, walking the dog at night in your pj's, or at dairy queen! Good luck!!!.
Should I just assume he wants bootycalls, even though he has kept in touch with emails and valid excuses for not seeing me?.
Heres how I suggest you end this. Sit him down somewhere cool and calm. Say to him what your about to say is not a joke. It's going to hurt but please hear everything I have to say. Explain the cheating but dont mention who it is. After you've explained how long it's been going on for and why you felt the need to stray explain for then say you feel it's extremely important he knows who this other man is..
Don't marry this guy until he grows up...or don't marry him at all if you can find a guy who is already grown up..
So cute.. happy to come across it again by chance..
That is the difference between lying by commission and lying by omission. Though either way it is still lying..
I've already told her what I was feeling(everything above) and said she was a great friend. Pretty cliche..
Fuckyeah, ibt4me: here's one for you guys..
His good looks would catch my eye, but the essence of the man would capture my hear..