Good for you OP.
don't know if it's the nicest, but it sure is nice.
1st you must live near me 2nd you must be close to my age 3rd I will never give you money so don't waste my time..
Just be cautious. Try to let it go. If you two are meant to be, you will be..
You need to give him 24 hours to remove his stuff from your place, change the lock (do not give him a key) and then go no contact! Sorry to be so direct - but that's the truth..