Hi.I'm Daniel from Louisiana Arcadia I'm honest loving caring ma..
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I don't believe the original poster's main problem is pornography however. It sounds like there are other deeper problems afoot..
I discount your advice because your a homophobe..
In other words, there's clearly a whole bunch of stuff, including some fundamental expectations, going on in your head that you aren't communicating - possibly out of fear of his response. But that's counterproductive, because those expectations and needs are strong enough that you react anyway (by getting hurt, even by breaking up). And that's very likely completely bewildering to the guy in question. Fear that communicating what you need will turn into someone breaking up or hurting you is, indeed, the flip side of neediness - both suggest that having the relationship is more important than being happy in it. That's not really what you want, right? I mean, worst-case scenario, you tell this guy that you wish he would pay more often, since you're feeling the pinch and don't make much money, and he responds by saying, nope, I don't want to. Well, then - that's a pretty valuable piece of info about him, isn't it?.
So you are not sleeping with them but you are paying their dinners? You've got the whole concept of multi-dating wrong, bro. Not that I'd pay for the woman's dinner, but you're spending time with her with what intention? A relationship? But wouldn't you sleep with her regardless of a potential relationship?.
Why do you think she would be willing to give you her phone so you can contact her ex? She lied to you about seeing the guy, do you really think she would be okay with you contacting him? Also, if you did contact him, what makes you think he will answer you?.
What do you mean you try to hang out with her? You asked her out on a date in advance? Or you asked her to drive 30 minutes to your house?.