Get a haircut, manicure, whatever, but do something ONLY for you..
We're both around 30 and have been dating for one year and a half, moved in together about 3 months ago. She is my third longest relationship and I'm her longest; she has only been in one other serious relationship and that was 9 years ago. I do feel at times that she is just too used to being single and having things her way, not needing to compromise or take anybody's feelings into account. We are both very serious about our relationship and there is mutual desire to settle down and start a family. She is usually very affectionate and has been supportive during a difficult time in which I was between jobs, so brownie points there..
If you can't handle not being #1 from day 1 or even year 1 then walk away. (Which will only reinforce the wisdom of not dropping other friendly relationships for the sake of "romance". ).
Another red flag man, are there any more?! How long have you been dating before you assumed she was your "gf"? How old is she? Just friends = I want to hang out and see if I like them better......sh*t test you see how you handle it..
What if your girlfriend was to say, "My boyfriend is the love of my life, but I have to go every so often and have sex with other guys.".
BTW - this band is the F***ing Sh*T - They have an interesting "Radiohead" sound to them, but much more melodic Like early radiohead...maybe..
I am Ted, I moved into London recently and would love to get to know more people her..
two perfect girls.