Ix27;m just look for a friendship not wanting to get married but just looking. im a blackjamaican 21 yr. like men who are athletic and humorous. if you want to know anything just ask Am just a cool guy. I am currently a student at Tech, majoring in Medical. I look forward to reading your. What am I looking for..
this girl is a dream.
I know you're done with dating, but if you start again, you'll need to focus on women with very low standards, if you expect them to hang around for "decent.".
A stunning bikini babe!.
I'm guessing that there's a huge double standard here. Men aren't supposed to need to feel valued, right? They're supposed to be tough and macho and not care if their wives give them any sort of emotional reinforcement, right?.
I can say, OP, that I am married to someone who has a very similar perspective to how you come across on the forums. She talked about past BF's/H's "equipment" like a guy comparing tools, seemingly oblivious to how that might affect me, even though I have no insecurities in that department. To me, it was non-feminine and a turn-off, especially since I knew the guys. That didn't make her wrong or a bad person, but rather incompatible. I need a different personality type in a woman. She was/is more like a man in a lot of ways..
If both you and your boyfriend are satisfied the way it is now it's certainly not unhealthy by the definition of the word. It's absurd and contradictory to fight for the sake of love, absurdity and contradiction IS unhealthy for a relationship..
Originally Posted by Funkymonkey.
been talking to her kids too much. i would've bet on her being about 19..
I was promiscuous for a few years following a rape when I was 19...it was the third time in my life I had been sexually assaulted. I changed, after years of intensive therapy and eventually, medication therapy with antidepressants..
Not looking for anything specific. Just want to talk and meet new people and if feelings devolop we can go from ther..
I love my girlfriend. I wouldn't want to lose her. I want to be friends with this girl at work, too. I think a part of me has always been slightly bothered i don't have 'intellectual' conversations with my girlfriend. What i mean by that, is that we've never been on the phone and just talked. Talked about life, things. Its always been very physical and when we communicate its over a video chat while we surf the web. Otherwise its her complaining about life or asking me about my day. But she's not the kind of girl to contemplate existence or my own morality, which i enjoy pondering late at night..