GOOD MORNING STETS!!! :D Dude, go to H&R block....
If you don't feel you need to be on your best behaviour, or show off your best qualities, then you don't really like the girl..
I guess I'm going to have to play the Devil's Advocate here..
What would you do in my place?.
If the roles were reversed girl would've dumped him after the second date..
30? Hell I know a ton of 40 year old women who cant even pay their bills sad to say LOL..