I think you should let her move out but if you move that's fine too..
Doesn't matter if it's like pulling some teeth, you need to be able to communicate with her. Period. Find a way, and if you can't, than it means you're incompatible..
I look older than my age (26)..
did you hook up with her after your date & get at least as far as your friend?.
Maybe he's playing hot n cold?.
willing to contact through phone or email your preference. Would like to get to know someon..