Things moved slow with me and my boyf too. Just wait it out. I just got the L-bomb not too long ago- and we're almost 6 months in. Slow relationships really help feelings develop..
Wait, are you talking about "a date", or dating over some short period of time (i.e. a fling, a relationship). If the former - duh. If the latter, where can I make a donation to promote this point of view among women?.
We shouldn't make it seem like were permanently caging someone into a role in which the check-list is already set for them. A romantic arrangement is not a standard job posting with cut and dry requirements that must filled..