great body luv this girl.
I think your mistake was not telling him you want to see him more in person in conjunction with wanting to text less. It really sounds like you were breaking up, and it's pretty normal for someone to blast you when you're breaking up. It's a normal reaction, but if he was cruel and the anger was out of proportion, obviously you need to rethink this guy and if he is someone you wish to continue with. Picking at all your faults over two dates is not the best sign anyway, and not being accepting that you had other plans and didn't jump on an alternate day/time you provided isn't the best sign either. Were you passive and wishy-washy on the alternate day? Did you suggest any day/time in particular and discuss with him what would work?.
But I guess it might come off as pretty strange if a woman asks me out and I tell her that I only date autistic women, if I were to cut off all other types of women to that extreme. What do you think?.
By second date, starts volunteering personal information, the type you only tell someone you trust.