But then it's the guy that is considered "flaky" in this situation?!?! I just don't get it! Maybe he is a flake, I dunno, but you know how you cure a flake? You pick up the phone and you call his bluff. You get him to commit to his message of asking you out on that date if he does not then you hang up the phone wish him a good night with a warms smile and your new day starts tomorrow. A day which does NOT include him or any thoughts about him. WASTE OF TIME! You have better things to do, like watch your toe nail polish dry which for me is still better than thinking about someone who is not serious about me or my time..
If you think this chick is too fat, then you have been desensitized to the point of only being attracted to an unobtainable level of beauty. Take a hiatus from the female form in order to return to balance..
I have to ask....why are they, as you say, constantly messaging and emailing and talking with him like they do? Do they have a crush on him or something? Have they all been friends for ages or something? For them to be asking if he's broken up with you yet....first of all, that's pretty immature and not very "friend-like" to him....they should want their FRIEND to be happy......and b) how do you even KNOW they ask him this question? I'm going to assume that you know because he TOLD YOU that they ask him if you've broken up. What the hell is he telling you stuff like this for? Would seem to me that he's contributing to your feeling uncomfortable. It wasn't necesssary in the least for him to divulge this rude question of theirs, to you..
nicksauce19: Time to re-read the upload rules in the FAQ. Another rulebreaker and you'll be banned from uploading. Your source isn't any good..
doctors are different types of humans. They're on another plane. Good luck having a normal relationship with one. THis guy sounds par for the course on being non-traditional and kinda aloof..
To both of you?.
I tried that a while back. I did meet someone from it, he was alright but I balked when he told me he was divorced and had 4 kids all under age 12 which he didn't tell me before/during our first face to face meeting..
I agree with you if it makes you feel better :P.
How do you know she's back together with her ex? Does she tell you?.
Which is wonderful in theory, but in reality you end with a darned if you do darned if you don't situation. Either you'll be unhappy with the person you're dating because you gave up your standards or you end up the 40 year old virgin and equally unhappy..
Loved my time with Bryoni. Was in Amsterdam for business and decided to have some leisure time and…".
Her work does not require 65 hrs/wk, and that's the issue. I can understand that if it did, and it'd be much easier to come to terms with. The company she works for has general managers work 45/wk. Unfortunately, the situations you've stated are not an option as far as spending time, especially when I consider the hours I work, commute, etc..
My "upload ability has been disabled" and I can't figure why ???? DU please ?.
Under rated bait.
tattoo88: Read the FAQ before you upload anything else. Your uploads were complete garbage. More and you'll be banned from uploading..
I would march over there and beat this guy but I can't simply because he's much bigger than me and literally is very physically intimidating. When my wife first said he made friends with a guy at yoga, I expected a girly guy and not this monster..
Hi Dis! While I have seen this name before, it has been only in the last three months. I believe she is someone he met while we were broken up. At first, I had no concerns, he was so appreciative that I even agreed to talk with him again, I would have never thought he'd consider screwing that up! Lol ... But, I am thinking that, even if they don't spend time together, maybe she is the backup plan. If that is the case, she can certainly become his number one! I didn't go into this naively (if that's a word) and I've been cautious but optimistic. After this, my optimism is waning ... We have talked (at length) at why we broke up, his role in it, etc. and I actually feel comfortable with that, but I don't kid myself to think that means we will make it. (especially depending on how this turns out).